50 Things You Need To Give Up Today
- Give up trying to be perfect. – The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.
- Give up comparing yourself to others. – The only person you are competing against is yourself.
- Give up dwelling on…
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” your only as happy as you make it. you gotta constantly push thru life like turning pages in a book. on to the next chapter cuz if u keep rereading the same page you get stuck with no knowledge of what happens next.”
im motivated at this point in my life to finish school now. im seeing all these freakin graduation pictures up of a buncha my friends. ugh. why do certain circumstances have to be in the way to do what i needa do. but life is happening in a different order i expected it to be lol. but everything will fall into place soon enough. taking it one step at a time and learning thru each step is all i got to do…positive thinking leads to positive results..
why do things in life happen the way they do. things look up and things go right then something always has to happen. I’m slowly learning the hard way everytime. lol. wowza. but seriously seems like every good thing that happens, twice over something bad. I’m not lookin at it negatively I’m just sayin that’s how it’s been these past 3-5 years. but being that I’ve been deep in that feeling of hopelessness where nothings right i learn that this is where life challenges the shit outta you. I see that people who are “weak” will never come out on top. stayin positive and stayin in the present and not dwelling on that past will get u thru anything. u make decisions and have to deal with them. I talk about this so much but maybe I’m not doing something right. I needa do something different. I needa sacrifice shit like really sacrifice doing things. not just doin the regular same shit. I will. new year more problems ….no…it’s more opportunities to assess and better myself. and that’s where I’m at right now. blah blah blah. grrr. woosah. lol
Relationships— of all kinds— are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possesively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.
Love is a big small word yeah. Love is everywhere. You think of love….different types of love tho. Theres your general love for fambam, friends, hobbies, etc. That kind of love is always there and can never leave. Then theres your typical in love love. That love is pretty hard to give yeah. you take a risk with the in-love love. You put yourself so out there that you’re so vulnerable but yet so happy. in love love is opening up your heart to someone who cares about u so much they would do anything on their power to help you care for you…. love you.
“Love isn’t finding a perfect person. It’s seeing an imperfect person perfectly. it’s not there perfections that set them apart. more so, the imperfections that make you appreciate their quirks so much more.”
what do i want outta life? its a big question. pondering on what i want outta life. At this point of my life, im at a crossroad. Im working, paying bills, etc etc. I took the semester off and i needa save money. OK now i needa finish school. I want to do it all.
What do i want outta life? i ask myself this question and i dont kno how to answer it. I mean if you ask me i want to help people. My goal in my life is to help people, make them happy, and everyone goes home to see another day.
how do i plan on attaining that goal? …….. i needa sacrifice.
edit forever and a day later. dammit. at this point in my life im struggling mentally at everything. i wanna please everyone but dammit i wanna please myself. i wanna be where i wanna be and im not. fuccn a. grr but its good cuz that whats growin up is all about.
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im doing the best with what ive got. with what dealt on the table is what im working with. if im dealt a royal flush, why not play it. but if i got 3 and 6 offsuit i needa ditch it. sacrifice that shiet because it not worth it. same comparison to life. there times where it looks good and you go for it. but at the same time think about whether its a good idea to go with it or just drop it and save it for another day.
1. how old would you be if you didnt know how old you were? 25
2. if you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?
3. is it possible to lie without saying a word?of course it. not saying anything can technically be lying.
4. if not now, then when? tomorrow
5. what would you do differently if you knew nobody would judge you? nothing cuz i dont care what people think that much.
6. are you holding onto something that you need to let go of?i dont think so.
7. have you done anything lately worth remembering? saying good morning to every person i see haha
8. who do you love? what are you doing about it? i love everybody. what am i doing….not a damn thing becuz errybody knows i love em.
9. when is it time to stop calculating risk and rewards, and just do what you know is right? there never is a time to calculate risk and rewards anyway. u should just do u and do what u gotta do being that what ur doing is good.
10. do you think crying is a sign of weakness or strength? crying in my opinion isnt a sign of weakness. were all human. strength or weakness. i feel neither. it is just human feelings showing themselves.
11. would you break the law to save a loved one? i would break the law to save someone but it does depend on the situation ahha.
12. when you’re her age, what will matter to you the most? who?!
13. do you ask enough questions? or do you settle for what you know? i kno i dont ask enough questions. i should tho.
14. do you celebrate the things you do have?of course i guess haha
15. when it’s all said and done will you have said more than you’ve done? nope. i can say a whole buncha shit. but actually doing so man its hard. working on it tho.
16. when was the last time you tried something new?im not too sure.
17. which activities make you lose track of time?being super busy at work, playing video games, and talking on the phone or haveing a really great conversation
18. if you could do it all over again, would you change anything? nope i wouldnt change a damn thing. everything happens for a reason. not to say that i havent thought about changing stuff but ya kno
19. what is the difference between living and existing? the difference between living and existing is that we live to stay in existence. it is through us going through our day doing what we do that keeps us goin.
20. if you had a friend who spoke to you in the same way that you sometimes speak to yourself, how long would you allow that person to be your friend?for the rest of my life.
21. if you had to teach something, what would you teach? how to be happy no matter what
22. time or money? -Time…because time lasts forever and is endless
23. are you aware that someone has it worse than you? theres always someone out there that someone has it worse than me. i just live appreciating everythning thats given to me.
24. what makes you smile?seeing u smile. seein the little things that make someones day.
25. what would you regret not fully doing, being, or having in your life? i dont regret anything…
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